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Can a Narcissist (or Abuser) Ever Keep a Promise?

The short answer is no. If they have all of the traits of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, it is highly unlikely, especially in areas where they are known to be dysfunctional.

For instance, there is a high rate of cheating among narcissists. So when a narcissist has been caught at cheating and he promises never to cheat on you again, even if he is crying and acting "very sorry", is it likely? No.

Let's face it: most narcissists are not sorry. In fact, they will not be sorry unless they are desperate (losing something of higher value in you than they are gaining in terms of the person they are having an affair with ... they tend to look at people in terms of who gives them the most power, control, narcissistic supply, attention, and money).

Usually the way most narcissists deal with the subject of cheating is to make excuses and blame you. Some instances:
"If you weren't so ---, I never would have cheated."
"If you had done ---, I never would have cheated.…

Survivors of Abuse Tell Their Stories, Survivors Speak Out on an Array of Questions and Issues

Note: This is a brand new page I have added to my blog, and more will be added and fleshed out as time allows for an array of topics. This page can also be found under the "NEWS, INTERVIEWS, SURVIVOR STORIES"to the right.

* Does the gray rock method work for family scapegoats? Scapegoat survivors weigh in.
"The gray rock method" is sometimes suggested by mental health practitioners to keep your abuser from attacking you. But does it work for family scapegoats? Read what they have to say.

* Survivor stories are towards the end of this post: Why Laws Need to Change for Child Abuse Survivors: Machiavellian Gaslighting, Dangerous Dr. Jekyll Mr. Hyde Splitting and Attacks by Narcissistic and Sociopath Parents includes a pet killing mother, a child is being sexually abused and the mother tries to convince her that her toys are going missing because she is deemed to have Dissociative Identity Disorder, two girls are sexually abused by an older…